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WE THE PEOPLE –“SOLDERING ON?” 30th , sep,2007

Audacious NDTV journalist BARKHA DUTT was the host of this heart melting show. The show which made me think of the past moments in my own life.

There are 2 people whom I would like to mention who had the motivating quotient in the show.
1) Major. Mitra - the brave soldier who lost his sight on a brigade.
2) Suhasini- the wife of a soldier who passed away during the battle.

Their story really touched my hearts.

The show took its own time and went on its own pace to bring down the emotion on the viewers. But it has left a tremendous impact on many.

Major. Mitra was sponsored by IMA to do his masters in TATA institute of social science. Then later he was sponsored to do his masters in economics in London school of business. At present he is employed with a MNC in a high designation. Though Im missing lots of contents which was discussed in the one hour show , I will put forward those incidences which will arouse the readers instincts.

Major. Mitra was asked about his accident. He replied “there were 3 soldiers who were there with him in the mission. One of them got injured and what mitra did was he left his collar badge on that persons collar so that he will get a better treatment thinking he is an officer when someone finds that injured soldier”.

Next was he was asked whether he would like to serve the army if he is given a chance again. He replied “if he gets a chance to be a human in next life, he would join the army to satisfy his unfulfilled wishes and dreams which was snatched from him by the nature this time.”

Now let me share some views of suhasini the wife of a martyr who died in a battle. Javed Aktar was also present in the show. His tribute to the army through the film LAKSHAY was heart throbbing and award winning movie. He said if her husband was a Punjabi his family would have got 25 lakh, compensation for his death. But unfortunately he was from Karnataka. And the government promised suhasini to pay 1.5 lakhs. When suhasini was asked about this she said “government hasn’t even come forward to give a condolence letter to her family.” As I heard this tears started dripping from my eyes. But still she is proud to be wife of a martyr. Though she dint speak much she kept the matter short and powerful.

Seeing that show I deeply regret on my past. Though it was not a big achievement I cleared 2 rounds of air force interview for engineer officer post. As I was out of reach for the main interview which was held at varanasi due to my personal problems I dint experience the main process.

And 1 more heart throbbing thing was there was an officer in the crowd who is an engineer, had corporate experience for 3 years, cleared IIM interview but sacrificed it for the only pride of army. He was major inspiration of the show.

I will keep all these things in my mind. I will fight for my own dreams rather than for the dreams that present worlds society is imposing on me. Finally this show has thought me some thing which I lack personally.

“Live for your passion, don’t get driven away by others dreams”

Me and Murphy found..."Laws on present generation girls..."

My latest Ph.D. thesis - "Laws on Girls....."

1. If u think a girl is beautiful, she'll always have a boyfriend to confirm that

2. the nicer she is...the quicker u will be dumped!!!!!

3. The more the makeup, worse the looks...

4. "95% of the girls in this world are beautiful. Remaining 5% would always be around you...

5. The guy standing next to a beautiful girl can never be her brother.

6. If by any chance the girl you like , likes you too, she will let you know in about 10 years from now ,when you are committed to some one else

7. The more you ignore a girl, the more she'll want to be friends with you.

8. Theory of relativity......
The more u run towards a hot chick....the more she goes away from u...

9. Rule 1:
Even if you got her out alone... just when you are about to let her know about your feelings...she will spot a long lost friend( I guess from Kumbh ka Mela)

Corollary to rule 1:
The more desperate you are to tell your feelings to a girl on a private chat, the more probability the long lost friend she discovered is a handsome superman, who beats you in everything 9:1

Axiom 1:
The more dedicated you are to the girl, the longer it takes before things work out, but ultimately it will (somesmile for the guys)

10. the day the chick you really like comes and speaks to you will be the day when-
1. You are dressed badly
2. You forgot to brush your teeth for the first time in your life 3. Have a bad hair day

11. all the good girls are either nuns or married .the rest go around with u and ruin ur money,health and leave u a total wreck.


Now For my IInd paper:
Differences between men and women:


1. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

2. Men wake up as good-looking as when they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

3. A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want.

4. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

5. There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman- before and after marriage.

6. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

7. To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

8. Any married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing!

9. A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

10. Women look at a wedding as the beginning of romance, while men look at a wedding as the ending of romance.

ENNEAGRAM

ENNEA-strong

GRAM-point

this is a psychology based test which was did in the personality development class by mr.andrew pinto...

this is an amazing test which can help you in identifying which kind of person you are...

there are many sites which gives you a tickle test in this...

there will be numbers from 1-9 which has their own description and their own expression to tell what kind of person u r...

that was gr8 taking that test..and for me the maximum points resulted in number 5 and it depicted and disclosed me correctly what kind of person i am...

im sure many people in my class got it right...i wish you people to take up the test...

u can analyze ur strength and weakness through the results of this enneagram...and can lead a balanced life...

try it searching in google!!!

My 3rd article...in paper....

I really wonder that how much i would have got name and fae if had been an editor or if i had been a journalist...even now i wish 2 switch to that stream...but my post engineering dreams deserves more importance at the moment...

time will come when those dreams will be fulfilled and i will be on the screens...

wait and watch guys and babes....

actually question was "Is tendulkar back in his old form?"

"
Is coming back to form a problem for our little star? He has served
Indian cricket for 18 years now and has crossed milestone of 15k ODI runs.
speaking truth and reality its time for him to retire. In a year out
of 10 series he is not physically fit for 5 of them. His mind has the
will but body has lost its energy to work more. Making big scores once a
blue moon is fortune. Its time for him to retire as a legend with name
and fame like lara, warne, Mcgrath etc. Cricket is a mind game but body
fitness is needed to work your brains out. Sachin can maximum stick to indian side for 2 years from now."

and this time my article was published in the same way i wrote it...hope im improving in my part...

yipeee:my second article in education times today!!!

hey nowadays a big emotion engrosses me...sometimes i even think did i choose a wrong profession?

nah...some luck factor it may be that my articles are making it into publics vision.
but im an engineer. during free time its really gr8 feeling that im doing something without beating around the bush in home...

yipppeeeeeee.....my second article came in news paper today...its on "what indain education system lacks..."

"Certainly right from the gurukul days our education system has been constantly gaining its pace. At present, what interests society is a hyped education i,e top institutions. there has been a gradual change in all levels of education. Comparing to foriegn universities what our system lacks s credit based course system. Foriegn universities concentrate more on practical and research. I wish most institutions in india lacks this.
Educational system needs to be more flexible such that it can produce researchers in various fields. A doctor may be interested in technology also and in this situation he has to be offered a course of his wish along with his MBBS. Students in schools have to be given inspirational talks on achievers and leaders. They have to be shown the way to find their interest which will reduce parents job on finding a career for them. Book based system should be converted to experience based system. Everything should be taught with practical examples."

but 1 thing this s the article which i sent....content and most of the article including my name is published correctly...but i really admire those editors who has decorated my article with a better intro and conclusion...

their work was splendid than mine....

THATS REALLY GREAT!!!***my 1st article on newspaper***

the topic was to tell about who is super star. is it rajni or AB?

and here is my 100 words article which i sent it to dna and it got published today...really a happy moment...wish to keep my pulses high and aspiring.

"Rajni is the supernova star for sure. He is a silent saint who has grabbed the attention from poor to rich and from east to west of this world. No endorsements, no politics, no controversies, no inhumane activities. Definitely he is india's biggest superstar. He is a mascot in disguise for the poor. And he is the epitome of style."

i ll go ahead with this. sitting in home these things can inspire me sometimes....

technology rocks!!!

hey did u ppl wonder how rajni looked so pinkish like an european n sivaji-the boss???

i hope u ppl r still thinking its a make up on him...that 2 in "oru kudai sunlight song"

u r absolutely wrong...

here technology plays its role...rajni was asked to enact the scenes later an irish gal was asked to enact the same what rajni did...so her acting was captured and using the texture technology her face and structure were changed like rajnis...it was not graphics but its image processing...

every pixel has been aligned to get rajnis image from the gals picture...

so there is no wonder to think how this film cost is 80 crores...this s only for a song....wen it accumulates for whole film its really worth admiring these technologies being an engineer....

My 2nd short story - "Who Was SHE???"

WHO WAS SHE???

Was she Miss elegant? Miss seductive? Miss fantasy? Who was she when I came to know about her existence. But it took almost 2 decades for me to know who she was.

I truly accept that she has the best of qualities. People around her will get direct prick on their brain on the first look at her and when she comes in regular contact with you, I cant tell to what extent she drives you out of thought. She drives you crazy.

When I saw her first time how I felt was like this, she was cute , brown, perfect structure what we find it difficult to maintain in the current age. For a moment I felt who are the bloody ancestors of this sweet heart of many. And on a holiday she is the dream of every one to spend their valuable time with.

Where ever I go I find her. She was really torturing and eating my useless brain for past 2 decades. I don’t know what she has in special to seduce even some females at times. Mind boggling character.

Her dressing is inveterate. She is serene. She is divine. She disguises herself in many ways and she doesn’t know to differentiate between rich and poor. I liked that nature of her right from the beginning.

Some times I even felt why is she so considerate about everyone she meets, when there are people who are ready to give life for her. And why are people so possessive about her. I was dangling over this thought on many occasions.

She had many close friends who usually take her “signature”. I was also in the same list.
I met her for the first time in my college. There are many other similar to her but she had something charming and eye catching for me. In my first year I rarely use to see her. And dint had any guts to talk to her. I use to think she will ditch me if I try to accost her. Those thoughts were really like throwing a stone on the sewage and peeping into it when it spits out the dirt on you.

Later I felt I should have guts to give her my presence for the first time. It’s a well known philosophy that until you showcase your talent you are not gonna be recognized. So I thought being a guy I should try my best to attract her. I have seen her in many moods but the one I liked the most was when she logs on to the podium to show her grace and bring up a cheerful rain over that place. She really excites and rocks the moment.

And one more thing which dips me in thought is the moment she hits the dance floor. You cant stand still when she rocks the party. If not her, then no party. It was almost in the middle of my second year I prepared myself to capture her vision towards me. But it’s a bloody college life that on my first meeting all the buggers around me spoilt it. It was fun for them but it was a lose of rage for me. But still I had passion for her. I conceited myself telling “failure is the stepping stone of success”. I felt pity on my privacy among my group of friends. As you know jealousy always prevails if you try to imagine the way I have described her.

Days passed. Its almost my third year has begun and the workload is striking my bad tempered brains which was unable to mould to the situations. There came another break for us. It was a picnic time again. This time I was sure I will grab her attention. We all boarded to mysore in a self arranged bus and it was on a full throttle the masti was taking its role till everyone sweated with tiredness. This was the moment I thought of her again. It would have been a relief if she was near me at that anguishing moment.

Next day early morning we reached mysore. It was almost I felt speaking with her whenever I see her but my bloody friends around me screwed all my opportunities. I managed to see her alone that night when I first spoke with her. She has always been a well wisher for the human mankind. And that night it was the same with me too. I somehow tried to take my best friends with me such that I don’t get in trouble for being alone. We all were together till we felt dizzy.

That night was the best in my life. It was like I opened my feelings, emotions to her like discharging a battery but felt more energized like an induced coil. Each word she spoke was like a sharp pulse pumping my heart and was responsible for my life. I was literally drowned in the ocean of seduction. And the power she had in her words was enormous. Even Einstein would have gone mad and rewritten his theory of relativity in the way she wished.

The next day I was totally taken aback on my courage to accost her. I simply gave a pat on my shoulder and started sharing my happiness with my close friends. But they too felt the same. That was the instance I realized that still if I go after her I will be the looser. I decided I will maintain only friendship with her and will not love her. But truth is she is a tickling and triggering factor for love and lust.

My decision was more justifiable and was more appreciable by all my friends. They also synchronized with my decision. From that day we never approach her alone. We always enjoy her company with our close gang. And we decided that whenever we have a get together after graduating we will pay her our respect for binding this friendship.

I finally saw her some days before we departed from my college. She gave us a warm send off and I am sure all my friends will be longing for a get together again. And we will not have a get together without her. All our joy, sorrow, love, cheer is shared by her. She has never made us feel her absence. Finally I wish to dedicate this real story of my life to her.

But till now I have not introduced you to her. I know you all will be eagerly waiting to know “who was she?”. Well she was none other than the sizzling “wine bottle” I was speaking about for so long. She be the one. She be the bomb. But we love her for her activity once she gets in our brain. She is miss elegant, miss seductive, miss fantasy for all of us.

My debut short story is released!!!YAHOO!!!!!

hey guys,

"Cheerfulness is the manifestation of wisdom"

the same way...here i am cheering up with my own work...i have never thought myself that i have patience to sit and make a story which is totally based on reality.

but it was fun once u start getting urself involved in it...it was a great experience...

it has in fact fun writing a story with a big gathering of words...i learned the way to express my emotions wit the words...

http://www.geocities.com/ucmsuri/withss.html?1182190625078

plz visit the above mentioned link to read the story...

everyone is welcome with their own critics...and reviews...

cos with that only i can come to know about how the story has got value in public...

there ll be some gramatical mistakes as i dint edit it properly and it was a 1 shot game...

plz dont mind this...

waiting for your replies...

my 1st short story - coming soon!!!

I donno how my 1st short story is gonna be welcomed by u ppl in a mean while....

this story is a true trauma which happened with 1 of my well known person.

its not so crazy idea to develop a story with it. but i thought y cant i try my work in writting a story for the 1st time...

god, its not a childs play in writting a story...u need to create some instances to make the situation complete....

i heard the whole story on a 1 hour walk but its been 3 days im cramming to bring the story line live in the form of words...its a nice experience though...

it ll get ur emotions out of u wen u ppl ll read it...

hope, i may not be a great writter though..but my trivial way of writting will surely be a timepass for u ppl...

keep watching here for my debut short story here...

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INTERNSHIP OPPURTUNITIES for JUNIORS!!!

AIESEC!!!

this s an organization totally dedicated with youth activities...

wen i was in amrita i dint knew such organisation existed..but wen i found few days back i thought it can be helpful for junior batches...

ppl plz check out www.aiesec.org or www.aiesec.net

this s a youth led community which s active n more than 95 countries across the globe...they help n getting global internship through their community contacts

many ppl have been benifitted by this...i came 2 know very recently about this...so ppl plz enroll in this and take advantage of the awaiting oppurtunity.

i think n TN AIESEC chapter s there n chennai...so ppl some 1 take initiative 2 contact them and start a coimbatore chapter...

finally its u ppl who r gonna be benifitted...so keep updating here...wats happening...